The Great Pen Pal Dilemma

I don't want a pen pal.
I want someone to spend time with.
Someone to cuddle with
Someone who wants to get to know me.

I've got "Mr. J", who I've been corresponding with for three weeks. He lives an hour away. We have nice conversations and he doesn't make me want to throw my computer out the window. I think he's content with us being friends. (Pen Pals)

And I've got "Mr.S" More than 6 hours away. We've talked on the phone. He's interesting. He wants to date...but he's soooo far away.

But this doesn't help me find what I'm looking for. One guy. Who wants to go out on dates.
Who wants someone to be part of their lives.

One guy.
he doesn't have to be perfect.
Just perfect for me.